On my milestone 40th birthday, I thought of sharing about how I celebrated my birthdays at different ages, Hope you enjoy reading the blog and relate or recollect few of your memories too. I would like to thank and appreciate all my family members and friends who were part of my birthday celebrations for the past 40 years at some point of my life. There is a saying "Life is a journey, Family members are like roads and friends are like trees". We need both in our life journey and play major role in our lives to make it more cheerful and colorful.
1. First Decade - Early Birthdays (1-10)
As many of you don't remember your first few birthdays, I'm no exception but based on what my parents told me, my first birthday was celebrated just between my parents. I don't think we have a pic of it, but below is my first pic of my life when I was about 6 months old. I was not able to sit properly, but my dad used his hand to support me in the background of the blanket.
Most of my first decade birthdays includes a standard routine of going to temple, going to school to share chocolates to classmates, visit a photo studio and eat out.
a. Photo Studio visit birthdays
Camera was not in our hands those days, so we used to visit "Photo Studio" to get pictures on birthdays / Anniversaries. As a kid when I was in my primary school I wanted to share chocolates to my schoolmates, but don't want to attend the classes. Just share chocolates and leave after first session / class. Want to use the privilege of wearing new dress instead of regular school uniform on your birthday.
b. NTR dress Birthday
I remember my 1st standard birthday which was my 5th one. I had the NTR (Popular Movie Actor and Politician) style dress and was celebrated at my Uncle's (Mother's brother) place. This was my favorite dress for a very long time.
2. Second Decade - Pre-Teen/Teen Birthdays (11-20)
a. Battalion Birthday
As I grew older, I went to one of my friend's birthday in our apartment, and they had lot of invitees, seeing that I wanted to celebrate that way, but my parents was little hesitant for an obvious reason. But decided to do as they don't want to disappoint me. The guest list was big as we added few family members as well who are near by. Definitely it was a big gathering and the Battalion was about 50-60 people. I thoroughly enjoyed this birthday with many of my cousins and friends. The main reason I want to celebrated that way is to get more gifts from people.
b. Mangala Harathi Birthdays
In Hindu religion, there is a tradition of giving Mangala Harathi for well being of a person from the well wishers. So my mom used to do that for me on every birthday. Below are few of them.
c. Teenager Birthdays
I think I was around 13-14 years old and told my parents that I would be giving a party to my Childhood friends and that was the first time for me to go out all by ourself to a restaurant with any friend. After we (Gang of 6) completed our under graduation we all went to our first long trip to Tirupati. There are so many first things that we all did as a group. We all have so many memories to cherish with. Srikanth being the longest friend of my life since 2nd standard, followed by Kittu, Sai, Chandu and Ravikanth. We have been Friends who are in constant touch for a very long time.
After I started my under graduation (BTech) , I got some new friends and started celebrated with them as well. But the celebration pattern of going to restaurants or bakery was same. I had great friends who always made me learn something new. I don't think I have pics for those birthdays so just adding some pics we had.
3. Third Decade - Young Adult Birthdays (21-30)
a. Scary Thrilling Birthday
About a week before my 22nd birthday my parents presented me a bike (Bajaj Pulsar) as a birthday gift. One of the best gift ever by my parents, also an expensive gift.
I was very happy about it but there was something even more thrilling. On the night before my 22nd birthday, One of my under graduate friend Maheedhar came to my house around 10 pm. We were discussing some serious topic on the near by window around midnight, cool breeze was hitting us and we were enjoying the weather. Nowhere from outside the window, Suddenly I heard an external person voice shouting "Happy Birthday" as I was really shocked to see another friend Rakesh and I was so scared of it as it was so unexpected at midnight. It was scary because to reach my bedroom window he needs to climb our gate and wall.
While all this was happening, my mom knock my bedroom door and said that my parents heard some noise outside and someone was trying to creep into the house. I was trying to explain my mom but I was surprised to see my dad have a stick in his hand to handle the assumed thief. It was hard for my parents to believe that crazy friends cross all the borders to celebrate birthday. Definitely one of my most memorable birthday ever. This was the debut of my mid-night birthday celebrations and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
b. Mid night Birthdays
For my 23rd and 24th birthdays I had a blast with my master's friends at Texas State University. We celebrated it during midnight and they are wild and bold. There was too many birthday bumps to handle, I couldn't walk properly for the next couple of days, but i had great friends.
I met few more friends at my work place and my 25th birthday was also celebrated at midnight and I got addicted to midnight birthday celebrations.
c. Realization Birthdays
I moved to a new small place in Kentucky. The saga of mid-night birthday celebrations continued for the straight 4 years, thought life would be same, but on my 26th birthday, I was waiting for some one to visit or celebrate but no one did and not even a call at mid night. I got a call from 1 or 2 close friends and my parents in the morning though. I was really not happy that I'm not getting any calls and no one is wishing me. Then realized that Facebook had some setting changes and it was not notifying my birthday. After I fixed that setting, I got couple of calls and few of my friends visited my place and had good time. Facebook was a savior, at least because of it people wish each other. Thanks to Kapil, Shubham, Nishtha, Abhishek, and Jessica for making this day. This birthday was something special because I felt like I was sitting in a Round Table Conference in a Global Summit Meeting as I had 2 American, 1 Russian and bunch of Indian friends. Thanks for all of them who made it possible.
With the kind of transition I had from Midnight birthdays to No midnight birthday wishes I didn't expect anything from my 27th birthday and realization started that everyone will be busy in their own life and I'm one in millions of people in the world. But I wanted to make it something special for my parents who were always supportive in my lows and highs. So gave them the best gift on my birthday by telling them that "I'm ready to get married". So they asked me for a nice picture and I did the best photoshoot of my life to find my wife. Definitely a deceiving picture which worked.. LOL!!!
d. Family birthdays
I celebrated my 28th birthday with my wife. I was fortunate enough to have her in my life and she definitely made my birthday special.
On my 29th birthday, After a long time I celebrated my birthday with my Father and we had new addition to our family Aarush (my elder son).